Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Optimism - 'The Rainbow Nation'


Well a day does not go by in Cape Town when I'm not blown away by people who enjoy life and display such enthusiasm and have such optimistic values and morals.  

A visit last weekend to 'Slaves at the Cape' a museum surrounded by a history of oppression, life and legacy.  The history of slaves at the Cape has been hidden, silenced and almost forgotten. 

For 180 years the Cape was a slave society, built on labour of imported slaves and their descendants who were born into slavery. Slaves inside the lodge was owned by the biggest single slave-owner. Most of the Company's slaves lived and died in the Lodge.  About 9,000 were kept between 1679 - 1811.

When I first walked in I felt a cold chill down my spine, and quite sick in the stomach.  There were shocking images and horrific stories about the inhumane and a series of brutal punishments that were endured over time.  The place that holds so much oppression and where brutality entrenched the lives of every single human daily, bears the history, where by-passers and local citizens are constantly reminded of such pain.  

Yet the local Capetonian's believe that they are here because of the surviving instincts of their ancestors and they forever worship their freedom fighters. They are not angry about the past, what can they do about it? I have come across very few people who are angry about  the past! One thing I found is most people have what they call an 'Internal Locus of Control', they are empowered by what they are in control of, the things they can't simply accept, they shift their mind-set or remove themselves from that environment.

It probably has a lot to do with the great man Mr Nelson Mandela.  After being imprisoned for 27 years and then finally a 'Free Man' and not an angry bone in his body.  "There is no easy walk to freedom anywhere, and many of us will have to pass through the valley of the shadow of death again and again before we reach the mountaintop of our desires".  This famous quote of his says it all.


Each day I can't help but to stare out my window when traveling to the schools or to the office and I pass by 'Table Mountain' on my right, and then to the left 'Robben Island' the place where Indigenous African leaders, anti-apartheid activists, including South Africa's first democratic President, Nelson Mandela and the founding leader of the Pan Africanist Congress, Robert Mangaliso Sobukwe, were all imprisoned on the Island.  Robben Island has not only been used as a prison. It was a training and defence station in World War II and a hospital for people with leprosy, and the mentally and chronically ill.  One side just in awe of such greatness with the mountain and then another ill-fated lesson of history in view of the Island.

I think that is why the people are the way they are, and why South Africa became the 'Rainbow Nation'.  Everyone whom is alive today inherits some of its history, good & bad, but today, together, they breathe the same air, walk the same earth.  Mandela was a powerful force for reconciliation and democracy to everyone 'White and Black', he reminded the white, of the injustices and gave hope and optimism to the Black.  But in order for a country to strive there was to be no more division.

Today Scott and I were invited to attend a  school, not just an ordinary school, but one for students who have ambition, some as young as 17 up to 28.  We participated in a program called Business, Expenses, Savings Training or BEST GAME, it is  interactive and experience based. It simulates real business conditions and life scenarios in the training room.  The process gets participants to weigh up information, make decisions and react to the consequences. Participants see the results of their actions and experience the thrills and spills of real life activity.

It was amazing to take part and make new friends.  I sat with this young lady, she was so full of life and enthusiasm.  She said she had returned to school to get her degree and wanted to study business.  Here in South Africa there is no social welfare.  You have to work as an employee, further your studies or become an owner of your own business, and that is what she wanted to do, own her own business.  We got talking, she told me she was 26, a mother of 2. One child 10 the other 6.  I asked her what her husband did, she replied 'He was shot here', I have been a widow for 3 years.  I said I was sorry!  She replied, 'It's OK, I have accepted it, I have to be strong and make a good life for my children'.

Again that moment occurred.  Here was a young lady, not angry, but one whom is optimistic about a positive life she chooses to create for her fatherless children.

I love life!!! I feel truly blessed with my family, and what I have personally worked hard to earn, and achieve. I feel even more blessed that I am fortunate to come across people who inspire me to do more with what I have to offer!


Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Simply Amazing!



1 week down and 4 to go.  Wow! What an experience it is...one thing that strikes me here everyday is that 'nothing is too hard or impossible', where there is 'life there is light'.  The objective of me being here is to learn how to 'shift the mindset', empower and give capacity to the individual so that their 'locus' of control is always internal.  My facilitator here Ernest, is just an amazing human being, full of smiles everyday and in his outlook there is no wrong or right answer...every decision we make is all consequence related, we determine our own destiny and learn from each response.  So...i have almost mastered the methodology of the programs, now to get down to business and see the responses and actions of the students in the local schools!  The real Journey beings....

Also a big congratulations to my NPGA girls back in Oz who are undefeated and carving up the U/19 Basketball Comp in Darwin! Well done girls, keep up the good work. Proud of you all :)

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Orientation






Well it certainly has been a full on experience so far, so much to be learned, and the people here are just amazing, so optimistic and empowering to say the least! I have two brilliant educators here and its' been mind-blowing to see first hand the amazing educational tools they have.  Scott and I are now in routine, up at 6.30am, off to the gym, breakfast, our driver picks us up and then the knowledge sharing commences.  So the first week is orientation and then its off to the schools for the rest of the time here.  Everyday new things are taught and much wisdom is gained.  Quote for the day....."A good head and a good heart is a formidable combination".